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A Little More Than Amazing ♥
vickytoria chan ♥.a.k.a nutball/reindeer. .24th april. .sexy seventeen. .taurus. . . . .choir`alto 1.SL.(2007-2008) .plmc. .child of God. . .I'm alittle more than amazing. Loves ♥
my everlastinq.God.my fun-loving.church. my dearest and most treasured.family & friends. my 24/7 with me.handphone. my always rawking.computer. sweet-nice-cold.ice-cream. SOMEthing nutty.nuts. passion.singing. the voices within.choir. the study of books.literature. crazy scribbles.drawing & doodling. funny funny.jokes. a girl's favourite pastime.shopping. out in the sun having fun.volleyball & captain's ball. cuddly love.cow pillow. the HOT one.ZERO. the best to read.manga. fetish for.bananas. playing.pool. Aspirations ♥
to be at least.1.6m tall. more.savings & money. more.clothes. photo.shop. either.ds or psp. travel.around the world. learn.japanese and french. expensive.shopping sprees. my own minature.library. be less bored. Flying Kisses ♥
Talk to me, The ULTIMATE ONE. ♥
Love Them ♥
.aaron..amanda wong.MUNKY. .angelika. .angelyn. .angie. .audrey. .cassandra. .celestia. .chelsea. .cheryl. .cleo.SANTA. .constance. .debbish. .dewaine. .desiree lee. .dwight.WIFE. .elizabeth. .esther. .faith. .fiona. .grace. .hema. .isaac. .jia yu. .jamin. .jane. .janella. .joel.DEVIANTART. .jolene. .jonathan. .joscelyn. .joshua. .joy. .jowell. "AWESOME" .juanita. .jun yang. .karin. .kenneth. .leroy. .marcus. .marieta. .mark. .mavis. .melissa. .m&m warriors. .natalie. .nicole. .olivia.FURBALL. .poh hun. .rachel. .randi. .randy. .ray. .sac voices. .sara. .shu min. .teresa. .teri. .tracy. .vanessa. .veronica. .yeung wing.SEXY MASTER. Archives ♥
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//Thursday, December 04, 2008 9:19 PM
 UNDERSTANDING IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT, NOT. Tangled in issues? Problems? Screwed up situations? Trials? Obstacles? Disputes? Troubles? Dilemmas? Predicaments? A very messy life? Sure, don't we all have those? "Nobody understands me." "I know they mean well but they just don't get what I'm trying to say." Sounds familiar, much? Everyday we all seek to be understood by the people around us. We all want the empathy of others. Yet, there are times that many of us are unable to execute that for others as well. For example, when your parents go "Blah blah blah", there is a chance of you going "Oh gosh, the aliens are speaking idiot to me again." or "Nag, nag, nag. That's all they'll ever do." At the same time, you know they mean well, however, it is a child's nature to shut them out and be ungrateful. Then you start being cynical all over again with the line: "Nobody cares. Nobody understands." Regardless what they say, your parents words are labelled: IMBECILIC. Alright so if parents don't understand you, who does then? You turn to your friends and perhaps relatives for some cases. Confiding in them day after day, pouring out all that is bottled up. Sure, your friends listen and tell you they understand so that you'll feel better while you cry your lungs out and drown in your tears. Once you spill everything out, you really start wondering if they understand you. You start wondering how much can these people who lead a extremely different life from yours can really understand. Would your problems and sorrow really mean much to them? Loved ones standing by you for the rest of your lifetime? After all, the truth is that people come and go, no one stays in the same place for long. What if both parents, loved ones and friends don't satisfy your need for a greater amount of understanding? Let's say you are religious and you decide to turn to God as the final solution. So you and pray and pray and keep praying. You tell your God about what's troubling you everyday. You get it off your chest and you feel better. However, that feeling never sustains or assures the human heart easily. Eventually, there comes a question of faith and rationality: "How much can I rely on God?". At the end of the day, you realise that you're not fully understood either. Now, what? You're left on your own, alone, stuck. Everything unsolved. You turn grumpy and unpleasant. You don't understand your friends or family. They try to be kind and sensitive no matter how much you hurt them but you have your blind spots and take them for granted. You take full advantage of them without being sensitive: "I don't care about what you are telling me, I've got better things to worry or care about.". You don't show any empathy towards them or the events that goes on with their lives. You turn into an extremely self-centered monster. All you ever care about is that no one "understands" you. Back to square one, you're all alone. Don't worry. You're not the only one of such species. The truth is that there are indeed many in this world who lack the empathy as well. You're not as alone as you think you are. You'll probably refute: "No way, I'll never be such a heartless person.". Well, think again, do you really think so? To me, I think the answer to such a person's character is to understand and empathise with themself. To me, I feel that no matter how numerous the amount of people who belittles one, there's always a chance of being understood. Regardless of how sincere or hypocritical a loved one can be and as long as one is able to show empathy is all that matters despite being kindly treated or ill treated by others. At the end of the day, I think the one emotion that proves us to be humans is emapthy instead of love. Love is the emotion that lives in all living things but the one emotion that sets us apart as God's greatest creation is empathy. Empathy is the intellectual identification with or vicarious experiencing of the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another. In my opinion, to be able to empathise is a very special gift that God could ever give to his greatest creation. And maybe instead of only wanting others to care about you, perhaps its time that you use your empathy as a gift to others as well. After all, isn't Christmas just round the corner? So start asking yourself: "How far will I go for others?" “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view — until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.” --quoted after Atticus |
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